Love Story Workshop

May 17th, 2011

Well I’m off to the USA in a few weeks to take part in the Marbecca Love Story workshop and then on to the ARMDJ conference.  This builds on some personal coaching I received in the States about the same time last year.  At that time we focused on improving my MC skills.

What is a love story workshop you ask?

This is something Mark and Rebecca Ferrell, renowned wedding DJ’s in America developed a number of years ago and made them one of the most sort after wedding DJ’s in the country.  It provides an opportunity to create a rollercoaster of emotions as the MC shares the couples Love Story.

I will post some more detail on completion of the workshop.

Do you want Ronald McDonald as your MC?

July 15th, 2009

There are times when a McDonald’s meal is just what you need and other special times when you would willingly pay for a high quality meal with exceptional service.  There is a market for both.

The problems occur when you really want the top quality option but are shopping in the wrong place or when Ronald McDonald tries to sell you that they can provide the same service and quality food as those top class restaurants charging 5 to 10 more.

The same thing happens in the DJ marketplace, some DJ’s cater for the commodity market and compete on price, some are comfortable in the middle and others cater for the speciality top end service needed for a once in a lifetime event.  What really annoys me is when a DJ catering for the mass market (lets call them Ronald) tries to convince a client that wants the top end service, that they can deliver everything the top end DJ does, only for less investment.  This is sheer fantasy.

No matter how you dress him up, do you really want Ronald McDonald to MC your wedding?

Next time you come across a DJ claiming to be a professional wedding DJ - just check they are not wearing a red wig and big floppy shoes.  By this I mean, find out how much experience they really have delivering high end entertainment at weddings.  Compare their service offering with others.Don’t just book based on what they tell you, actually ring their references.  Seek the opinion of the venue managers that work the receptions (not the sales people), they see lots of entertainers and can give you an unbiased opinion on who can really deliver.

If you would like to find out more about the top end service I offer, check out my website at http://www.theperfectwedding.co.nz .  If you would like the opinion of one of the best venues in South Auckland - contact Steve at Castaways (based at Kariotahi Beach just out of Waiuku) http://www.castaways.co.nz  They cater for over 100 weddings each year and see their share of Ronald’s.

Where to save money on my wedding?

June 3rd, 2009

A wedding is not something you have everyday and is a very special event, however in these economic times more and more couples I speak with are looking for tips on how to save some money on their wedding.

My advice has always been the same.   Make a list of your priorities for the day.  

What is most important to you? 

  • Photos look great?
  • I look great?
  • Food is fabulous?
  • Venue is stunning?
  • Guests have a great time?
  • The ceremony is romantic?
  • Relaxed and fun?
  • Flowers are breathtaking?

Make you list, put them in order of priority.  Book and budget for the most important, then make your compromises on the rest.

Unfortunately I sometimes get couples that leave booking the entertainment till last and although their highest priority was for a fun celebration for themselves and their guests, the money has run out and they are having to compromise on the most important service.   

I have a much more comprehensive document on planning a budget for your wedding.  contact me via our website http://www.theperfectwedding.co.nz/contact.htm

Hearing the ceremony

May 8th, 2009

Is it important that your guests can hear the ceremony?

My take on this is, yes.  You invited the people you care about most to share and witness this special event in your life and that’s exactly what they want to do.  If they can watch but not hear, I feel they miss out on a lot.  

There is another side to this however.  A couple of celebrants I have worked with feel quite strongly that the vows are to be shared between the couple and the only people that need to be able to hear them are the couple and their witnesses.

If you do want your guests to hear then you may need to consider amplification.  This will obviously depend upon the setting and numbers you have attending.  A small group (<40)  in a small church or private garden may enable everyone to hear without any assistance.  As the emotion kicks in, I find many couples tend to talk a lot quieter and on occasion even the witnesses standing relatively close have had trouble hearing.

So if you are considering amplification, what should you look for or consider?

In most settings I would recommend to my clients they use a high quality UHF radio lapel microphone.  Generally I place one on the celebrant and one on the groom.  The one on the celebrant is a uni directional microphone which means it will primarily pickup their voice and not much else.  On the groom, I place an Omni directional microphone.  This will pickup the groom and the bride and if for some reason the celebrants mic failed it could pick them up too.  It is important that professional quality equipment is used to ensure there is no interference, dropouts or hiss.   In windy situations it is vital that wind jammers are used to minimise the wind noise.   Mic placement is important too in order to minimise wind noise, avoid knocking or bumping and also to achieve optimum audio response.   In extreme wind conditions I would recommend moving to a handheld wireless microphone with a large professional wind jammer.

Audio levels should be set so guests can hear comfortably without it sounding loud or obviously amplified.

I have had one celebrant refuse to wear a microphone.  She was adamant she had a loud voice and that the guests would hear.  The couple were very concerned about the 200 guests being able to hear and asked what I could do to ensure this could happen.  The ceremony was being held outdoors in a private kiwi fruit orchid just out of  Waiuku, South Auckland.  There was no negotiating with the celebrant so I installed a boundary microphone on the ground between the bride and groom.   This is something that is often used on stages to pickup actors.  It is very discrete and effective, however can be effected by wind (and overhead aircraft!).   In this situation it really did save the day, as despite her assertions of a loud voice, without the sound reinforcement only about 20% of the guests would have been able to enjoy the service.

An experienced DJ or Audio Visual provider should be able to advise you on the equipment and its placement and use to get optimal results.  If they don’t sound confident or haven’t provided sound reinforcement for a ceremony before, you may want to consider looking elsewhere for support for this part of your day.

If you would like to contact me, checkout our website http://www.theperfectwedding.co.nz

Setting the mood…

May 7th, 2009

Music can play an important part in setting the mood at various stages during your wedding.

The first thing to consider is what feeling you are trying to achieve during each of the stages.

  • Pre ceremony as your guests are arriving
  • During the ceremony
  • Post ceremony congratulations
  • Photographs
  • Mix and mingle
  • Guest seated in reception venue prior to wedding party arrival
  • Entrance
  • Dinner
  • Dessert
  • Dancing

The list is not all inclusive and will possibly be in different order, but it highlights the need to consider more than just the music at the end of the night.

Generally the mood and tempo increases as the day progresses so guests toes are tapping and they are eager to get onto the dance floor once the formalities are completed.  Having said that, dramatic changes in genre and tempo can create emotional responses during the course of events and can be used to good effect to lock in special memories. 

Think back over your life… Are there certain songs that bring back memories or when you hear a song does it take you back to an event or time in your life?  This is what we want to do with your special day, create memories not only for you, but your guests too.

About time…

May 6th, 2009

Ok, with a bit of prompting from my good friend Nick, thought I had better get back into this blogging thing.

Ever notice how time just runs away?  Ever been at an event (a wedding maybe) were time couldn’t go fast enough?

Timing of entertainment at an event is very important and often overlooked.  I was once told that the average attention span of an adult is 20 minutes, sometimes I wonder if it is that long.  Sure, you can sit through a whole movie and not get bored, but the content is changing often within seconds, not minutes or hours.  If you are planning an event like a wedding you need to be considering how to keep the guests involved from the time they arrive for the ceremony till they leave at the end of the night.   In New Zealand this could span upto 10-12 hours so 1 or 2 entertainment highpoints are not likely to be sufficient to outweigh the extended periods of potential boredom.   

Over the next few posts I will introduce some of the things we do to keep people involved and change the mood or feeling at various points throughout the ceremony and reception.

2008-11-29 Event

November 30th, 2008

So this weekend we didn’t have a wedding as it was my niece’s 21st birthday.
She held a masquerade ball, in a local hall - 360 invited.
The hall is very nice, quite new, but she wanted somethings special. Took us 12 hours to setup, plus a lot of planning and running around.
We draped the hall with black velvet drapes, the masks were made from 3mm MDF, painted and decorated.

Welcome

November 3rd, 2008

Hi,

This is my first experience with a blog so I’m still finding my feet.  I am hoping to include topics on here to ensure your wedding entertainment is everything you dreamed of.  Although my title is DJ an MC, think you will find there is significantly more I can offer to make your day even more special.  The Master of Ceremonies role is a critical part to the success of your day and often is imposed on a family member or friend.  Have you considered involving a professional in this role?

Regards

David Seel